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Hard Conversations at Home | Post-test

About 10 minutes. 12 questions, plus the same 3 confidence questions you answered at the start. Pass mark: 80%.

You made it through the lessons. These questions check the same skills as the pre-test, with new situations. Score 80% or higher to pass and earn your certificate. You can take it as many times as you need.

Each retake mixes up the order and swaps in some new questions. Your first try is the one we use to see how much you learned, so there is no need to rush it.

Some questions describe hard moments. You can stop and take a break at any time. This course is education, not therapy. If you need to talk to someone now, call or text 988. Veterans can dial 988 and press 1. In danger, call 911. If someone is hurting or threatening you, call the National Domestic Violence Hotline at 1-800-799-7233 or text START to 88788.

How this works

  • Answer every question, then select See my results.
  • If you score under 80%, you will see which skills need more work and which lessons to review. Then you can try again. The questions and choices will be in a new order, and some questions will be new.
  • When you pass, you will see why each answer is right or wrong and your own before and after results.
  • Your results stay on this device.

How sure do you feel?

Rate each line from 1 (not at all sure) to 5 (very sure). There is no right answer.

I can name a hard issue at home in plain words, without blame, and open the talk well.

1 = Not at all sure5 = Very sure

I can stay calm enough to keep talking, or take a break and come back.

1 = Not at all sure5 = Very sure

I can listen, handle defensiveness, and repair after a tense talk.

1 = Not at all sure5 = Very sure

Questions

1. Your mom often brings up your weight at family events. Which sentence names it without blame?
2. Dev and his dad argue every weekend about how Dev mows the lawn. Each time, Dev says, "Nothing I do is ever good enough for you." What is most likely the unspoken issue?
3. Your teen is due home in five minutes for a talk you have dreaded all week. Your hands shake. What helps most right now?
4. You feel flooded during a talk with your dad. Which break request protects the conversation?
5. Your brother is often late, rarely calls Mom, and never said sorry for an old fight. You have one talk planned. What should it aim for?
6. You ask your partner for one night a week to yourself. They agree, but seem a bit hurt. Which is a good enough outcome?
7. You want to talk to your partner about chores. Which opener has all four parts: what happened, your feeling, your need, and your ask?
8. You plan to tell your sister, "You always make everything about you." How could you rewrite it so she keeps listening?
9. Mid talk, your husband sighs, "We never do anything fun anymore." Before you explain your side, what do you say?
10. Your brother raises his voice: "Here we go, I'm always the bad guy!" What keeps the talk from getting worse?
11. You rolled your eyes while your partner was talking. Which repair is complete?
12. You and your dad have had the same fight four times this year. Talks keep ending in yelling. What is the best next step?

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